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All I really need to know I learned in DBC...#2

唔知有無讀者等緊呢個專欄﹐今日上完第三堂啦。雖然非常之累﹐但係都想寫低一些學到既野。

Professor 講左三個關於他女兒Gwen小時候的故事﹐好有意思﹐係呢度同大家分享一個﹐我諗係全班都覺得好感動既。

係Gwen 五歲既時候﹐有一日﹐佢表現得好開心。係前一晚﹐佢同家人講﹐她大個了﹐唔會再食手指。早上﹐重整早餐俾全家人食﹐之後﹐重整D Valentine card 俾D 同學仔。

當Gwen 係度剪緊D 心心既時候﹐Professor 好奇問佢﹐點解甘開心既。

Gwen 答: Because Jesus is helping me。

聽到女兒甘講﹐Professor 更加好奇﹐再問Gwen, 耶穌點幫你呀?

Gwen 答: 耶穌幫我唔再怕其他人點諗我。

原來係前一日既Kid's Sunday School, Gwen 同另外一個女仔Alexis (係架﹐其實呢個係女仔名黎架)一齊做手工。Alexis 係所謂既social center, queen bee. 所有細路女都睇佢頭做人﹐如果同Alexis 唔岩﹐係個班會好慘(雖然甘細個﹐重係church, 但係人性就係甘)。係做緊手工既時候﹐Alexis 同Gwen 有以下既對話:

Alexis: I hate Anne. (Anne 係Gwen 既best friend)
Gwen: Well, I like Anne.
Alexis: You are stupid!
Gwen: That's okay. I still like Anne.

聽完之後﹐各位同學都好感動。唔知大家明唔明﹐但係係果個情況之下﹐Gwen 其實有好大既壓力﹐面對一個係自己既social circle 有甘大影響力既人﹐而對方又make 左一個highly moral 既opinion. 重要係關於自己既best friend. easy way out 呢﹐就係附和對方﹐講大話。但係Gwen 無甘做﹐因為佢知道咩係對咩係錯﹐最緊要既係﹐佢知道人點諗自己無所謂﹐好多時﹐我地會怕人多過怕神﹐我諗用個怕字﹐可能有小小misleading, 或者係著緊啦。The fear of man, 好多時﹐我地大人都會犯同樣既錯誤﹐只怕人﹐唔怕神。

希望大家都向小女孩學習!

posted by 板板子 @ 9:32 PM