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Love & Respect: Understanding...don't try to "fix" her

唔知西門兄有無等緊呢? 都係寫埋先...

She'll Feel You're Trying to Understand Her When...
...you listen and can repeat back what she said.
...you don't try to "fix her problems" unless she specifically asks for a solution. 好多時其實講左出黎就舒服架啦﹐但係又有好多野我真係要人幫既.
...you try to identify her feelings. 係啦。
...you never dismiss her feelings, no matter how illogical they may seem to you. 我覺得呢野緊要呀﹐因為女人都係irrational 架。
...you say, "I appreciate your sharing that with me."
...you don't interrupt her when she's trying to tell you how she feels.
...you apologize and admit you were wrong.
...you cut her some slack during her monthly cycle.
...you see something that needs to be done and you do it without a lot of hassle.
...you express appreciation for all she does: "Honey, I could never do your job."
...you pray with her and for her. 都真係好想架。

posted by 板板子 @ 7:37 PM