Wendy's Blog: Love & Respect: Peacemaking...she wants you to say, "I'm sorry."

Thursday, October 19, 2006

Love & Respect: Peacemaking...she wants you to say, "I'm sorry."

She'll Feel At Peace With You When...
...she let her vent her frustrations and hurts and don't get angry and close her off. 係呀﹐唔開心又唔講得﹐我會死架。
...you admit you are wrong and apologize by saying, "I am sorry. Will you forgive me?"
...you understand her natural desire to negotiate, compromise, and defer, and you meet her halfway.
...you try to keep your relationship "up-to-date," resolving the unresolved and never saying, "Forget it." 係啦﹐唔好話當無野呀﹐有就有﹐無就無﹐點都要解決架麻.
...you forgive her for any wrongs she confesses.
...you never nurse bitterness and always reassure her of your love. 梗係啦。重點係ALWAYS!
...you pray with her after a hurtful time. 真係有用架。