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Love & Respect

近日﹐身邊的好友不少在蜜運中﹐或快要步上人生另一階段。在羡慕之餘﹐都覺得或許是時候學多點東西﹐看看講兩性相處的書籍。

之前看了Emerson Eggerichs 的Love & Respect, 近日重看一遍﹐這本講婚姻的書﹐內中值得分享的甚多。主要的信息是在婚姻關係裡面﹐妻子最需要的是愛﹐丈夫最需要的是尊重 ('然而，你們各人都當愛妻子，如同愛自己一樣。妻子也當敬重他的丈夫。" 以弗所書 5:33)。在婚姻裡﹐無條件的愛當然是不可缺少的﹐但無條件的尊重﹐就好像很少被提及。書中為男女不同的需要與看法作了很詳盡的解釋﹐又提供了不少方法教導夫婦如何表達向配偶表達愛與尊重(但我想對蜜運中的你們都合用既)。

先分享丈夫可以如何向妻子表達愛意(不會全部寫出來啦﹐想知就睇書啦)

六個女性重視的地方
Closeness
Openness
Understanding
Peacemaking
Loyalty
Esteem

Your Wife Feels Close to You When...
...you hold her hand
...you hug her
...you are with her alone so you can focus on each other and laugh together
...you go for a walk or a jog...anything that results in togetherness
...you seek her out...set up a date night...eat by candlelight
...you go out of her way to do something for her, like run an errand
...you made it a priority to spend time with her
...you are aware of her as a person with a mind and opinions...let her know you enjoy discussing things with her and getting her insights...
...you suggest the unexpected...get takeout and eat on the beach...take a walk to see the full moon...park on the bluff and watch the sunset.

posted by 板板子 @ 9:53 PM