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Love & Respect: CHAIRS

開始講丈夫如何向妻子表達愛意﹐當然要公平D﹐講下妻子如何向丈夫表達尊重。

六個男性重視的地方
Conquest
Hierarchy
Authority
Insight
Relationship
Sexuality

"Conquest...the natural, inborn desire of the man to go out and "conquer' the challenges of his world - to work and achieve. As a wife, if you can start to understand how important your husband's work is to him, you will make a giant step toward communicating respect and honor, two things that he values even more than your love."

"He wants a woman who believes in him...There is a parallel here between Christ and the church. Christ wants us to believe in Him, and we do that to the glory of God. But in the human sense, in the marriage relationship, men do what they do for the admiration of one woman. When you fell in love and he married you, he felt that you believed in him and he appreciated that - perhaps far more than you have ever realized. It touched his spirit, because this is something huge within the male. He married you, and he thought that your "cheerleading" would last forever." 西門兄﹐唔知講得岩唔岩呢?

Your Husband Will Feel You Appreciate His Desire to Work and Achieve When...
...you tell him verbally or in writing that you value his work efforts.
...you express your faith in him related to his chosen field.
...you listen to his work stories as closely as you expect him to listen to your accounts of what happens in the family.
...you see yourself as his helpmate and counterpart and talk with him about this whenever possible.
...you allow him to dream as you did when you were courting.
...you don't dishonor or subtly criticize his work "in the field" to get his to show more love "in the family."

P.S. I believer in you!

posted by 板板子 @ 6:32 PM