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Love & Respect: Loyalty...she needs to know you're committed

今日想講左loyalty 先。

原來女人都鐘意問﹐"你愛唔愛我? 你點解愛我? 如果我老左﹐有病﹐你重愛唔愛我? " 呢D甘老土既問題。點解呢? 一方面﹐女性好重視loyalty 同commitment, 另一方面﹐可能呢個世界真係好多誘惑﹐電視, 報章雜誌﹐係街上﹐係網上﹐而要男人唔望靚女又真係無可能。一般女子都會覺得好insecure, 於是只好問下另一半﹐希望得到reassurance. 有時男士們會以為另一半在"整蠱" 自己﹐問埋呢d甘既問題﹐其實好似作者話“she moves toward you in that fashion because she is loyal to you and needs reassurance of your loyalty to her...when she is assured of her husband's love and loyalty, she is energized and motivated" 被問起既時候﹐只要好誠懇甘答就得架啦。 如果一句我愛你就可以令到對方樂不可支﹐點解要吝嗇呢?

"A wife must have reassurance."

"A woman always like to hear her husband exclaim, "You alone are my love" (Song of Solomon 2:10)

She Is Assured of Your Loyalty When...
...you speak highly of her in front of others.
...you are involved in things important to her.
...you help her make decisions, such as ones regarding the children.
...you don't look lustfully at other women.
...you make her and your marriage a priority.
...you are never critical of her or your children in front of others.
...you include her in social gatherings when others may leave their spouses home.
...you call and let her know your plans.
...you keep commitments.

posted by 板板子 @ 6:34 PM