Wendy's Blog: 10/01/2006

十月的最後一天...

接到值得高興的消息...今天還有美味的homemade cookies, 心情相當不錯.

較鐘後的一天

放工﹐一踏出公司﹐就發現一天黑晒。

較鐘後的一天﹐將會是日短夜長的開始。

滿街是人﹐在聽著丞琳的我﹐有點不實在的感覺。耳中﹐口中是國語。眼見的都是英文﹐若不留心﹐會聽到身邊的路人說英語。腦中思想半英半中﹐自說自話自然講廣東話。不是夢裡不知身是客﹐而是再一次發現我的現實世界就是這樣。

到火車站﹐排長龍! 原來是有幾個turnstiles 壞了。無知的人呀﹐如果你向右望就會見到不出二十呎就有另外的入口! 為甚麼要制造令人恐慌的假像! 父呀﹐赦免他們﹐因為因為他們所作的﹐他們不曉得!

車開了﹐望著天黑黑﹐醒起一件好想做的事又做不成了! 當然你又會說將來大把機會﹐而我寫完這篇又會無事﹐但在車上我還是覺得有點失望。

回到家﹐收到一個壞消息一個好消息。壞的呢? 大概不是太壞。好的呢? 我覺得好囉。

終於完成了我的炒米。但係點解重要煮麵既?

book study

今日主日學魚牧講到book study, 即係揀聖經其中一本書去進深研讀。剛好之前重看The Spirit Controlled Woman , 當中建議melancholy 性格的女子連續三十天看腓立比書﹐學習"contentment with what she has and who she is"。照做了﹐覺得很好。雖然自覺對腓立比書頗熟﹐但連續地看又有新的體會。最可惜係無逼自己背經文﹐或者真的要下定決心。現在正讀加拉太書﹐一讀之下發現對此書認識甚少﹐希望數星期後會有不同的講法。

Twelve Extraordinary Women by John MacArthur

讀書會﹐不經不覺第五回﹐今日講這本Twelve Extraordinary Women by John MacArthur。

很少看關於聖經人物的書﹐對上一次是好多年前看中譯的神的門生。多謝姊妹的推介﹐作者分別講到12位女性﹐有Eve, Sarah, Rehab, Ruth, Hannah, Mary, Anna, the Samaritan Woman, Martha, Mary (Martha's sister), Mary Magdalene, 同Lydia. 大部份係大家都好熟悉既﹐亦有些係聖經只用了幾節經文去描寫。今次看這書比較有discipline﹐ 終於唔係趕住趕住。加上其實本書好睇﹐雖然對這些人物都認識﹐但從來沒有像作者般去睇﹐好似Sarah, 一向對她的評價都係負面居多﹐但作者提出Sarah 對Abraham 的順服﹐都係以往無留意到既﹐越來越發現讀聖經真係要好仔細去觀察﹐否則會錯過好多精彩既細節。總括而言﹐這十二位女性各有長短處﹐有好多值得我們效法既地方﹐作者如此說去結束...

"If these twelve women teach us anything, it is to center our lives, our faith, and our perspective of the future on Christ and Christ alone...

To sum up, everything that made these women extraordinary was ultimately owing to the work of the glorious Savior whom they loved and served. God was truly the extraordinary one, and He was simply conforming these women to their Savior's likeness (Rom. 8:29).

Extraordinary as they seem, what God was doing in their lives is really no different from what He does in the life of every true believer: "But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as by the Spirit of the Lord" (2 Cor 3;18 NKJV).

May the extraordinary results of that process be the everyday experience of your life."

較鐘的一天

以前較鐘個禮拜永遠倦過平時﹐因為恃著多一個鐘又夜訓返一個鐘﹐今年好啦﹐尋日又在家千日好﹐係正常時間一點就訓啦﹐今朝早D起身﹐焗埋油﹐重可以係屋企食cereal 先出去添。

一醒就諗起幾年前既呢個時候﹐話說團契攪fund raising, 而我重係無車既日子。於是要某弟兄過黎車我﹐唔知果年係咪佢第一年要較鐘﹐甘當然就係無較到啦。約七點三﹐點知六點三就有人禁鐘﹐我重乜都未掂﹐一開門見到件羽絨褸﹐嘩大佬乜甘早呀﹐你無較鐘咩﹐我未得喎﹐甘你入黎坐下先啦。其他細節好似有無斟茶佢飲果D就唔記得啦。唔知點解今日會突然間諗起﹐唔知某弟兄又記唔記得呢?

無所事事

今日﹐又唔係心情唔好﹐又唔係想玩自閉﹐本來都諗住出去﹐不過有D累﹐最後都係決定係屋企hea。

嘩﹐真係好耐無試個成日唔使出街啦﹐真係開心。都唔係hea 既﹐其實做左好多野...

整cookies 俾你﹐你同你﹐一路睇住Food Network 一路整真係幾正。
食公仔麵加煎蛋。
洗夏天衫呀﹐換床單呀﹐嘩﹐正呀﹐新床單好舒服。
煮餐飯亞媽食。
嘩﹐難得5-way conversations﹐大嫂﹐真係好啦﹐點都同你有親戚關係﹐我地會幸福架!

下一次甘樣舒舒服服唔知會係幾時呢?

Anybody home?

今日﹐好奇怪﹐找邊個無邊個。

想同你講聲生日快樂﹐點知你個電話好似cut左甘既﹐唯有call 你D姊妹﹐希望你收到個留言啦。

IM你﹐點知有人答話xxxxx is now driving, 嘩﹐邊個幫妳答IM呢﹐好好奇...

call 你﹐點知又要留言﹐不過都好你好快覆返﹐但係講左幾句﹐你得閑call返我啦。

不過呢﹐你又IM我喎﹐重要係做緊D甘緊要既野都IM我﹐真係榮幸啦。但係點解你會攪甘耐架﹐唔怪得要食素啦。

緣份遊戲III

第一回合: 無緣...唯有說一句﹐沒有你還是愛你
第二回合: 今日棄權...因為..."兩情若是久長時，又豈在朝朝暮暮?"
第三回合: 好野! 大團圓結局. 獎品係提子軟糖一包。

暫時玩到呢度﹐下次你出題啦。

過敏

原來這首常在車上聽到的歌叫<過敏>﹐好聽但傷感。突然想起﹐這麼多年﹐我都沒對花粉過敏﹐但愛情過敏的季節呢? 曾幾何時也滯留在那邊﹐幸好現在情花毒好了﹐不用再思念﹐就沒有了過敏源﹐愛情過敏症會否就終生免疫呢?

過敏

歌手：楊丞琳作曲：黃淑惠
填詞：大麥編曲：洪敬堯

你消失的一百天
我沒了笑臉　怕別人看見
我敏感的神經線　一點一點　沒知覺

＊泛紅雙眼　不成眠　它跟著我一整夜
　麻痺的臉　特效藥也　無解

　才發現　我正擱淺在愛情過敏的季節
　Oh　過敏源　是對你的思念＊

＃我想我　才了解
　我正停格在愛情過敏的季節
　季節沒改變　是想念　沒斷線＃

REPEAT＊＃

我想我　才發現
感情塵蹣已佈滿了我的世界
Oh　過敏源　是為你流的淚

我想我　才了解
就算用盡了力氣也未必如願
季節沒改變　是眼淚　弄濕臉

REPEAT＃

季節一直變　但我的心　沒有變

你消失的一百天　我沒了笑臉　沒知覺

緣份遊戲II

第一回合: 無緣...唯有說一句﹐沒有你還是愛你
第二回合: 今日棄權...因為..."兩情若是久長時，又豈在朝朝暮暮?"

黑色毛衣

今天穿上那黑色毛衣﹐再加上外套﹐仍然覺得冷。

去年聽B ko 的話﹐減價買了黑紅兩色的cashmere wraps﹐絕佳的投資﹐其實去年都已經歸本﹐相信會是今年冬天的良伴。

一直在整理衣物﹐本年度﹐要去舊﹐但不一定會迎新了。太多身外物﹐也是一種負擔﹐心中有數﹐知道有些百搭衣物要添要換﹐除此以外﹐要忍忍手。

其實想立志不再買冷衫﹐但明知做不到就無謂逼自己啦。

緣份遊戲

第一回合: 無緣...唯有說一句﹐沒有你還是愛你

千里之外...

十月二十三日, 星期一, 發現你在千里之外也想著我...如果能捕捉到當時的神情﹐你會看到甚麼呢﹖是每一次聽到你聲音那喜形於色﹐是沒有預料的喜出望外﹐是我找到了那喜不自勝。一早說過無需要太多﹐記得前兩天跟你說過我要甚麼嗎? 是的﹐就是這樣簡單。謝謝你﹐今天﹐我很高興。

我找到了?

今早送歌予菜家華氏﹐想不到一回家就見到回應. 好同意大嫂所講既﹐唔引用啦﹐自己去看看吧。絕對覺得自己一個人都可以好好生活﹐獨立自主多年﹐會得為自己安排。要多精彩都可以﹐若是平淡呢? 也一樣甘之如貽。如果
願意開放自己去找尋那想找到的人﹐也是一個經過深思熟慮的選擇。見過的真實例子﹐與看書看過太多﹐知道那happily ever after 根本就不存在﹐因此更加願意去用心經營﹐與承擔關係中的day in day out 的苦與樂。或者﹐我又get ahead of myself 了。但好肯定﹐如果有一天我找到了﹐我知道生活不會變得容易﹐笑聲快樂之餘﹐眼淚一定也會很多。但是﹐我一定會好努力去對你好﹐好好珍惜你。當然這不保證你也會努力﹐也會珍惜我﹐但我知道﹐若然不是你﹐一定會有另一位更加好的在等著。無論如何﹐到那日﹐損失的﹐要後悔的﹐一定不是我。

Love & Respect: Esteem...she wants you to honor her

You Wife Will Feel Esteemed When...
...you say, "I'm so proud of the way you handled that."
...you speak highly of her in front of others. 我對你都會架。
...you open the door for her. 好基本。
...you try something new with her.
...you give her encouragement or praise with kindness and enthusiasm.
...you notice something different about her hair or clothes. 最怕明明整左個頭被人話無剪過!
...you are physically affectionate with her in public. PDA 呀! 如果無﹐我會覺得被嫌棄囉。
...you teach the children to show her and others respect.
...you value her opinion in the gray areas as not wrong but just different - and valid.
...you choose family outings over "guy things."
...you make her first in importance. 梗係要啦!
...you are proud of her and all she does.

Love & Respect: Peacemaking...she wants you to say, "I'm sorry."

She'll Feel At Peace With You When...
...she let her vent her frustrations and hurts and don't get angry and close her off. 係呀﹐唔開心又唔講得﹐我會死架。
...you admit you are wrong and apologize by saying, "I am sorry. Will you forgive me?"
...you understand her natural desire to negotiate, compromise, and defer, and you meet her halfway.
...you try to keep your relationship "up-to-date," resolving the unresolved and never saying, "Forget it." 係啦﹐唔好話當無野呀﹐有就有﹐無就無﹐點都要解決架麻.
...you forgive her for any wrongs she confesses.
...you never nurse bitterness and always reassure her of your love. 梗係啦。重點係ALWAYS!
...you pray with her after a hurtful time. 真係有用架。

Love & Respect: Understanding...don't try to "fix" her

唔知西門兄有無等緊呢? 都係寫埋先...

She'll Feel You're Trying to Understand Her When...
...you listen and can repeat back what she said.
...you don't try to "fix her problems" unless she specifically asks for a solution. 好多時其實講左出黎就舒服架啦﹐但係又有好多野我真係要人幫既.
...you try to identify her feelings. 係啦。
...you never dismiss her feelings, no matter how illogical they may seem to you. 我覺得呢野緊要呀﹐因為女人都係irrational 架。
...you say, "I appreciate your sharing that with me."
...you don't interrupt her when she's trying to tell you how she feels.
...you apologize and admit you were wrong.
...you cut her some slack during her monthly cycle.
...you see something that needs to be done and you do it without a lot of hassle.
...you express appreciation for all she does: "Honey, I could never do your job."
...you pray with her and for her. 都真係好想架。

再說一次

到了最後衝刺的階段﹐除了在你身邊﹐為你禱告與打氣之外﹐能做的不多。說過對你有信心﹐你知道為甚麼嗎? 因為知道你有能力﹐知道你有付上時間與心機﹐而且了解你﹐知道你是穩健派﹐不打無把握的仗。萬事俱備﹐只欠東風。不要妄自非薄呀﹐有正面的態度﹐已經是成功的一半。

當然世事無絕對﹐但我對你的信心可不是盲目的。神說: 人種的是什麼，收的也是什麼。少種的少收，多種的多收。盡了最大努力就別想太多﹐要信得過神。

再說一次...I believe in you!

Christmas Gift Tag 回顧

去年年底﹐看在積積份上﹐寫下了十項最想要的christmas 禮物 .

今天突然想起﹐就回顧一下吧。

排名不分先後...
1) 你從南國寄給我的postcard 收到呀!
2) 你從大英寄給我的東西都收到呀!
3) 明年與你在楓葉國見面嘩﹐真係做到﹐重收獲豐富添
4) 明年與你在威爾斯見面想不到世界這樣大﹐都可以年年見面﹐不知明年可以麼? 還是等08年?
5) 學懂如何做tiramisu, sponge cake, mousse cake 未得添!
6) 明年再見你算了吧
7) 早日與你完成兩年計畫對不起﹐三年?
8) 在可見的將來﹐仍有機會做為你做一點點事感恩﹐機會多的是。
9) 縱然快將天各一方﹐請你偶然都會想起我﹐希望想起的﹐都是美麗的回憶...而我將永遠將你放在心上... 計算錯誤﹐但出乎意料...
10) 我與你...這個...

原來夢想差不多都成真呢!

我找到了

這天﹐不斷聽這一首...

最喜歡這一段...
"連同昨天所輸的　一起找到了
哭泣夠了　我以後要笑　這一個是我的
碰上即刻知道　不必揭曉
連最想得到的　我都找到了
穿梭人潮　引誘幾多　不再動搖
從未像這樣確定　一伸手抱你
已經抱到最實了"

原來找到是自己的﹐以往是怎樣都不重要。哭泣夠了﹐以後就要笑啦。

P.S. 大嫂﹐你有這首歌麼? 我想你一定會有共鳴。

我找到了

歌手：何韻詩作曲：謝傑　
填詞：黃偉文編曲：Charles Lee

猶如在鬧市中覓尋　車位
猶如在密閉的地牢　暗中摸索電掣
明明互相錯過　但在我最灰心時候
抬望眼就找到了

＊我揹負著寂寥　鞋底走穿不算少　
眼看大路行盡　絕處偏偏碰見吊橋

連同昨天所失的　一起(都)找到了　
即使晚了　卻也遇上了　這一個是我的　
碰上(見)即刻知道　不必揭曉　
連最想得到的　我都找到了　
穿梭人潮　引誘幾多　不再動搖　
從未像這樣確定　一伸手抱你　
已經抱到最實了　(無謂恨昨日每段苦戀　得到愛太少)＊

猶如在綠野間覓尋　仙蹤
猶如在大雪中覓尋　救傷隊那位置
迷途後想放棄　但在我最灰心時候
抬望眼就找到了

REPEAT＊

連同昨天所輸的　一起找到了
哭泣夠了　我以後要笑　這一個是我的
碰上即刻知道　不必揭曉
連最想得到的　我都找到了
穿梭人潮　引誘幾多　不再動搖
從未像這樣確定　一伸手抱你
已經抱到最實了

tempted...

無煲碟好耐﹐咩yeung e, tong ling, 全部唔知咩人。近日亞媽係度睇TVB劇集。其實都好舊架啦應該﹐但係未睇過﹐都無所謂啦。尋晚佢完成酒店風雲﹐不過我對馬德鐘同吳卓羲都無咩興趣。今日返到屋企見到佢睇妙手III, 嘩﹐有我好鐘意既吳啟華(高高瘦瘦斯斯文文白白淨淨帶眼鏡既既男仔係我既死穴)同邵美琪(到宜家都唔鐘意梁詠琪既原因)﹐真係好tempted, to bo or not to bo...this is the question...

幸福的滋味在廚房...煮西餐

已經很久沒有正式下廚﹐所謂正式﹐即是看過食譜﹐做過research 學新事物那種。剛巧高檔超市寄來雜誌一本﹐內有很多食譜。當然主要的目的都是介紹大家買他們的產品﹐但亦有很多有用的資料。今天我想學pan searing﹐於是做了下面的:

Pan-Seared Pork tenderloin in Tomato Sauce

賣相麻麻﹐味道可以。自己先試一次是明智的決定。

Pan-Seared Chicken with Broccoli & Vodka Sauce

食譜是用雞胸肉的﹐但我想你會喜歡dark meat, 所以改用雞上脾。原來西蘭花用熱水煮一煮﹐加些橄欖油與鹽就很好吃了。Vodka sauce 第一次用﹐覺得不錯。不知道你覺得如何呢?

Autumn Roasted Vegetable

弄這個的原意是想用了上次貪新鮮買的delicate squash, 但切不開! 唯有用家中的green squash 代替。roasted baby carrot 好吃。Brussels sprouts 是第一次吃﹐味度好像帶點微苦﹐但可以接受。Green squash 就因焗的時間太長而煮得太"林" 了。但掌握到時間的話﹐roast vegetable 真的很方便。

買了Pan Searing Flour 與 Saute Pan, 一定要多練習才可!

YY豬生日快樂!

講開今日表妹生日﹐你問是否嘉露﹐衝口而出就想答我得呢個表妹架咋(就好似我得一個大佬甘)。但係未講就知講錯﹐跟住同你一計﹐我話我有四個表妹(定係話三個呢? 我都唔幾得係點講啦)跟住你話重有有狗果個呢(點解大家都鐘意用狗黎identify 我D親人既﹐好似狗人甘)。我先發現我將有狗表妹當左係紋身表妹個妹。再計一計﹐我係有五個表妹既﹐不過最親既梗係YY豬啦﹐其他果四個我諗total 見唔夠五次。甘真係唔係甘認識﹐佢地何年何月何日生我就當然唔知啦。甘YY豬生日﹐都留左言﹐但係我無講我係邊個添。不過我把聲無理由唔認得啦﹐同埋呢個世界上我諗叫你衰女既人都唔多過三個﹐知係我既應該。唔係我會好傷心架﹐希望亞幻之風識做幫你好好慶祝啦。

生日快樂呀﹐茵茵豬!

願你們平安

昨日收到消息﹐有代禱。但今日找你找不到﹐有點擔心﹐願你們平安﹐繼續為你們代禱。

紅模仿

最好聽係"哎呦哎呦喔　哎呦哎呦喔喔"個段。

哼哼哈兮　哼哼哈兮就係呢度出既。

紅模仿
歌手：周杰倫 | 作曲：周杰倫
填詞：周杰倫 | 編曲：林邁可 (Michael Lin)

中國風的歌曲　有增無減
是好是壞　問方文山最清楚
從娘子唱到雙截棍　東風破到髮如雪
一路走來始終如一　多樣的曲風　獨愛中國風

我堅持風格　我活在我的世界
誰都插不上嘴　唱反調　是我的本性
出奇不意是我的個性　就算我站在山頂
也只不過是個平民老百姓

但我的肩膀　會有兩塊空地
那就是勇氣與毅力　我要做音樂上的皇帝
哼哼哈兮　哼哼哈兮
哼哼哈兮　哼哼哈兮

下坡的路　不費功夫　別人已經幫你鋪路
但我選擇上坡　因為我取名叫自負
謙虛和那虛偽　就差一個字
有時有點分不清　因為我喜歡真實的自己

＊我不能夠後退　因為不是綠葉
　如果只是點綴　願當皎潔明月
　小草等待風吹　不用靠你的背
　假如天會很黑　我會請嫦娥奔月＊

為什麼寫這首歌　我現在還找不到動機
不過用心聽下去　你會覺得更有意義
如果你對未來產生恐懼　眼前霧濛濛一片
那是因為你沒把眼鏡給擦乾淨
勇敢走下去　這首歌會陪你前進
我常常在想　宇宙只有一顆太陽
為什麼我的影子這麼多　這麼像

戰勝幻象　和我一樣　喜歡模仿的朋友們
祟拜是件好事　欣賞是種美德
但走在我後面　我很擔心　別人會看不見你
到最後只是一個接一個的分身

這樣的鼓勵　是否太直接太諷刺
老師在講　到底有沒有在聽啊
我告訴你　做自己勝於跟太緊
最大的敵人就是那內心的自己

REPEAT＊

＃哎呦哎呦喔　哎呦哎呦喔喔
　哎呦哎呦喔　哎呦哎呦喔喔
　哎呦哎呦喔　哎呦哎呦喔喔
　哎呦哎呦喔　哎呦哎呦喔喔＃

REPEAT＃

我把自己交給你

第一次聽國語版。黎明唱國語真係好溫柔﹐個MV又拍得好靚﹐女角唔知係邊個呢?

我把自己交給你
曲 : 雷頌德詞 : 十方

從你眼中看見我的臉清清楚楚刻划著眷戀
愛情對我們來說已經開始

好想時空停在一瞬間
不管永遠多遠不管誓言多難言我情愿
讓我的溫柔輕輕越過你的髮線停在你的唇邊
輕輕抱著你對著你說我愛你
I want to give giving all my love to you
我的愛從這一天永遠屬于你今生今世不變
I'll give giving my whole life to you
我的心從這一天只會守在你身邊永不停歇
My love for you

記憶就像關不上的門
每日每夜進出很多人有些愛愛的很深就叫緣份
很想留住你我的眼神好讓愛戀的更深
就讓情份都難分兩個人
讓我的溫柔輕輕越過你的髮線停在你的唇邊
輕輕抱著你對著你說我愛你
I want to give giving all my love to you
我的心從這一天只會守在你身邊永不停歇
I'll give giving my whole life to you,
giving my whole life to you
我的心直到永遠不改不變
I'll give giving my whole life to you
giving my whole life to you
只會愛你到永遠不改變
My love for you

別舔傷口

雖然個MV同歌詞九唔搭八﹐但係日本真係好靚﹐黎明真係好靚仔。

別舔傷口
歌手：黎明作曲：雷頌德
填詞：林夕編曲：雷頌德

誰著燈　想親眼望真　被愛的煩惱
去愛的反得到傷之快感
砰然動心　自問比一生一世認真
但你將戀愛　化造憐憫
難道我也愛都變恨

＊讓你走　但別舔傷口
　贈我溫柔　還給你內疚
　但我知不見了你仍然最後
　活在這顆地球　有一千種理由＊

能和我分手　但說你對我憎得未夠
我做過人　你這種解釋　是從來沒有

火花已燒完　耍我亦耍完
對白亦講完　責任也付完
彷彿有一拳　打中內心也只好自怨
原諒你我自願　是我自願
像你錯愛的志願

REPEAT＊

能和我分手　但說你對我憎得未夠
眼淚免流　就讓我收手

讓你走　但別舔傷口
贈我溫柔　還給你內疚
但我知不見了你仍然最後
活在這顆地球　難聽或好聽的理由

能和我分手　但說你對我憎得未夠
我做過人　你這種解釋　是從來沒有
流連這地球　遺忘掉我後　是盡頭沒有

相逢在雨中

嘩﹐正呀呢個。

相逢在雨中
作曲: 曹俊鴻
填詞: 簡寧

紛飛小雨中　跟你再相逢
在腦內又再現擁有過的夢
此刻裝做出　我一切也從容
其實眼眸裏早已有點紅

共你在風中　願再度相擁
過去與你情濃如美夢
共你在風中　願再度相擁
你卻冷冷說句好嗎　叫我心冰凍

當天真心溫馨的相愛　痴心一縷
你那會知我今天仍等候
此際我心裡　灑滿你溫柔
暗暗看你那兩眼多麼冰冷
誰人能猜透　OH OOH
今天跟你分手　他朝不再擁有

經典

因為A子張貼左深秋的黎明既KTV俾我﹐於是我又睇下其他黎明既MV﹐有呢首經典。喜歡這首歌﹐因為黎明﹐因為旋律﹐還有因為曾經有人親自抄下歌詞送給我﹐那張紙﹐曾經在我宿舍床邊的牆上逗留了一整年﹐每晚睡前都看到。現在想起﹐真的甚麼感覺也沒有﹐但當時一定覺得好幸福﹐好浪漫。可惜這麼多年了﹐再也沒有遇上一個願意為我抄歌詞的人了...

黎明夏日傾情 MV

作曲: , 編曲: 盧東尼
監製: , 填詞: 向雪懷

是你嗎？　手執鮮花的一個
你我曾在夢裡　暗中相約在這夏
承諾站在夕照後　斜陽別你漸離去
亦會不歸家　期待我嗎？

是你嗎？　能否輕輕轉身嗎？
盼你會來靜聽我的心裡面說話
每天我衷心祝禱　祈求夏季快來到
讓這麼一刻燃亮愛吧！

I Love You！
你會否聽見嗎？　你會否也像我？
秒秒等待遙遠仲夏？

I Love You！
你不敢相信嗎？　我已深愛著你！
見你一面也好　緩我念掛

是你嗎？　能哼出這首歌嗎？
你我最愛沿路唱　以歌聲替代說話
這首歌在夢裡面完全為了你而唱
讓我的聲音　陪著你吧！

I Love You！
你不敢相信嗎？　我已深愛著你！
見你一面也好　緩我念掛
你應該知道　你應該感到　誰人愛你

深秋的黎明

歌手：黎明作曲：黃明洲

填詞：娃娃編曲：屠穎

月色變的黯然　在深秋的黎明
而你雙手是那麼暖
離別最後的季節　是風裡透著涼意
才知道兩顆心能靠多緊

夜霧慢慢散去　在深秋的黎明
而我雙眼離不開你
我愛你就像呼吸　感覺平淡無奇
用生命全心全意讓愛能繼續

＊深秋的這樣一個黎明　
無限清醒在心底　
遠行的我看著天空慢慢亮起來　
深秋的這樣一個黎明　
你不必怕寂寞　
愛的情意漫天過海會包圍你＊
REPEAT＊＊

冷雨輕輕飄落　在深秋的黎明
你的背影那麼孤單
紅葉像烈火燃燒　比不過我的心
我的愛永不會熄滅燃燒不盡
我的愛永不會熄滅燃燒不盡

Love & Respect: Loyalty...she needs to know you're committed

今日想講左loyalty 先。

原來女人都鐘意問﹐"你愛唔愛我? 你點解愛我? 如果我老左﹐有病﹐你重愛唔愛我? " 呢D甘老土既問題。點解呢? 一方面﹐女性好重視loyalty 同commitment, 另一方面﹐可能呢個世界真係好多誘惑﹐電視, 報章雜誌﹐係街上﹐係網上﹐而要男人唔望靚女又真係無可能。一般女子都會覺得好insecure, 於是只好問下另一半﹐希望得到reassurance. 有時男士們會以為另一半在"整蠱" 自己﹐問埋呢d甘既問題﹐其實好似作者話“she moves toward you in that fashion because she is loyal to you and needs reassurance of your loyalty to her...when she is assured of her husband's love and loyalty, she is energized and motivated" 被問起既時候﹐只要好誠懇甘答就得架啦。如果一句我愛你就可以令到對方樂不可支﹐點解要吝嗇呢?

"A wife must have reassurance."

"A woman always like to hear her husband exclaim, "You alone are my love" (Song of Solomon 2:10)

She Is Assured of Your Loyalty When...
...you speak highly of her in front of others.
...you are involved in things important to her.
...you help her make decisions, such as ones regarding the children.
...you don't look lustfully at other women.
...you make her and your marriage a priority.
...you are never critical of her or your children in front of others.
...you include her in social gatherings when others may leave their spouses home.
...you call and let her know your plans.
...you keep commitments.

暗號

最近電話好像開始壞...會否終有一天停止收訊號呢?

暗號

歌手：周杰倫作曲：周杰倫
填詞：許世昌編曲：林邁可

我想要的　想做的　妳比誰都了
妳想說的　想給的　我全都知道
未接來電　沒留言
一定是妳孤單的想念
任何人都　猜不到這是我們的暗號

＊他們猜　隨便猜　不重要　
連上彼此的訊號　才有個依靠　
有太多人太多事　
夾在我們之間咆哮　
雜訊太多訊號弱　
就連風吹都要干擾

可是妳不想一直走在黑暗地下道　
想吹風　想自由　想要一起手牽手　
去看海　繞世界流浪＊

＃我害怕妳心碎沒人幫妳擦眼淚　
別管那是非　只要我們感覺對　
我害怕妳心碎沒人幫妳擦眼淚　
別離開身邊　擁有妳我的世界才能完美＃

REPEAT＊＃

妳說妳想逃開鬆手
愛太累愛得不自由
因為我給不起最簡單的承諾
妳停止收訊號　我開始搜尋不到
到底有誰知道　是幾點鐘方向
妳才會收到暗號

REPEAT＃＃

周董的歌...

終於整左個smart playlist, 將所有周董既歌放埋一齊﹐好耐無試過唔係同一首歌repeat 又repeat, 而係聽晒成個playlist. 真係好好聽﹐可能國語歌都俾我一種溫柔D既感覺(好似黎明唱國語﹐嘩﹐真係lum死人。甘如果同個台灣仔拍拖咪好正? 唔怪得亞台灣方力申叫我做乜我都制啦)﹐同埋佢D快歌既beat 真係好岩聽﹐慢歌我無甘岩﹐但係比較好多其他歌手既都好好多架啦。當然﹐歌曲既變化不大﹐好多都差唔多既﹐不過對於我呢個唔怕悶既人來講﹐都無所謂既﹐好聽咪得囉。

Love & Respect: CHAIRS

開始講丈夫如何向妻子表達愛意﹐當然要公平D﹐講下妻子如何向丈夫表達尊重。

六個男性重視的地方
Conquest
Hierarchy
Authority
Insight
Relationship
Sexuality

"Conquest...the natural, inborn desire of the man to go out and "conquer' the challenges of his world - to work and achieve. As a wife, if you can start to understand how important your husband's work is to him, you will make a giant step toward communicating respect and honor, two things that he values even more than your love."

"He wants a woman who believes in him...There is a parallel here between Christ and the church. Christ wants us to believe in Him, and we do that to the glory of God. But in the human sense, in the marriage relationship, men do what they do for the admiration of one woman. When you fell in love and he married you, he felt that you believed in him and he appreciated that - perhaps far more than you have ever realized. It touched his spirit, because this is something huge within the male. He married you, and he thought that your "cheerleading" would last forever." 西門兄﹐唔知講得岩唔岩呢?

Your Husband Will Feel You Appreciate His Desire to Work and Achieve When...
...you tell him verbally or in writing that you value his work efforts.
...you express your faith in him related to his chosen field.
...you listen to his work stories as closely as you expect him to listen to your accounts of what happens in the family.
...you see yourself as his helpmate and counterpart and talk with him about this whenever possible.
...you allow him to dream as you did when you were courting.
...you don't dishonor or subtly criticize his work "in the field" to get his to show more love "in the family."

P.S. I believer in you!

Love & Respect: Openness....she wants you to open up to her

本來想晏一點先寫﹐但見西門兄甘如此心急﹐未食飯都寫左先啦。

首先﹐quote 下點解女性希望另一半open up...
"Remember, as a woman, she is expressive-responsive. She wants to talk about things. She wants to have her problems out in the open for discussion in order to solve them." ...俾作者一講我發現自己真係甘﹐好多時都唔知自己真正諗緊咩﹐要thinking out loud 先知﹐先解決到問題。

"At the level of intimacy, the wife is like the first circuit. If a serious marital conflict exists, this affects her whole being. All of her "lights" go out, and she shuts down totally. The is because she is an integrated personality. Her mind, body, and soul are connected and her entire system reacts to feelings of hurt." ...係啦﹐一有唔開心﹐真係咩都做唔到﹐返工都係對住個mon 發呆﹐或者喊。

"Most wifes...prefer to talk about marital problems on a daily basis to keep the relationship 'up-to-date.' ...As a husband you must understand that those feelings of being interrogated and thinking your wife is snooping or asking a lot of unnecessary questions are going to come over you. It will happen, and you must stop yourself before you get upset. Think about why your wife is doing this. She wants to keep things up-to-date. She's moving toward you because she loves you - you matter to her!" - 嘩﹐全中﹐真係好多野問架﹐不過係女人天性﹐同埋想大家好﹐請你多多包涵。

"One of the simplest yet most effective steps you can take is simply to share your day with her. If you don't want to talk at that moment, say something like, "Something happened at work today, and maybe we can talk about it later, but right now I would rather now. There is nothing wrong with us." That last phrase is what she will be looking for. She needs reassurance that your mood has nothing to do with her." 岩呀﹐西門兄你都試下啦。

Your Wife Feels You Are Open to Her When...
...you share your feelings, telling bout your day and difficulties.
...you say," Let's talk,' ask her what she's feeling, and ask for her opinions.
...your face shows you want to talk - relaxed body language, good eye contact.
...you take her for a walk to talk and reminisce about how you met or perhaps you talk about the kids and problem she may be having with them.
...you pray with her.
...you give her your full attention...no grunting responses while trying to watch TV, read the newspaper, or write emails.
...you discuss financial concerns, possible job changes, or ideas for your future.

樂不可支

今晚突然間想起﹐每次接到你的電話﹐你的聲音都似乎很高興。可能是我的錯覺﹐可能是因為每次聽到那鈴聲﹐我都會樂不可支﹐從心底裡覺得幸福快樂。好自然地﹐情感投射﹐覺得你也如我一般的感受。

但我情願相信你也如我一樣﹐是為那一整天的期待而樂不可支...是的...我想一定是這樣。

Love & Respect

近日﹐身邊的好友不少在蜜運中﹐或快要步上人生另一階段。在羡慕之餘﹐都覺得或許是時候學多點東西﹐看看講兩性相處的書籍。

之前看了Emerson Eggerichs 的Love & Respect, 近日重看一遍﹐這本講婚姻的書﹐內中值得分享的甚多。主要的信息是在婚姻關係裡面﹐妻子最需要的是愛﹐丈夫最需要的是尊重 ('然而，你們各人都當愛妻子，如同愛自己一樣。妻子也當敬重他的丈夫。" 以弗所書 5:33)。在婚姻裡﹐無條件的愛當然是不可缺少的﹐但無條件的尊重﹐就好像很少被提及。書中為男女不同的需要與看法作了很詳盡的解釋﹐又提供了不少方法教導夫婦如何表達向配偶表達愛與尊重(但我想對蜜運中的你們都合用既)。

先分享丈夫可以如何向妻子表達愛意(不會全部寫出來啦﹐想知就睇書啦)

六個女性重視的地方
Closeness
Openness
Understanding
Peacemaking
Loyalty
Esteem

Your Wife Feels Close to You When...
...you hold her hand
...you hug her
...you are with her alone so you can focus on each other and laugh together
...you go for a walk or a jog...anything that results in togetherness
...you seek her out...set up a date night...eat by candlelight
...you go out of her way to do something for her, like run an errand
...you made it a priority to spend time with her
...you are aware of her as a person with a mind and opinions...let her know you enjoy discussing things with her and getting her insights...
...you suggest the unexpected...get takeout and eat on the beach...take a walk to see the full moon...park on the bluff and watch the sunset.

去年的十月十日

剛想寫點東西﹐一時興起看看舊作﹐原來...

365 日前﹐我說要節衣縮食 , 一年前與一年後好像沒有分別﹐為明年的兩個婚禮﹐我一樣要節衣縮食。難道真的日光之下無新事?

電腦上身

絕對相信部電腦時日無多﹐唔記得幾時開始時時會自己restart。真係驚佢隨時會死﹐多謝你借個external hard drive 俾我back up (呢個世界上都係你最好最可靠﹐之前成檯人話借野俾我back up, 到宜家咪又係影都無﹐都係你抵錫)﹐遲D 燒埋DVD 就得架啦。頭先log on MSN﹐正想同大佬講兩句﹐點解我個靚樣變左一堆cream 既? 嘩﹐連MSN 都上身? 張display picture 都同我改埋? 嚇死。見返件cream pie , 其實我都唔記得整過添﹐要睇返archive 先知。

朋友好久不見

十月....one down

好野﹐今日開始應該唔會再俾人日日睇住我係咪預備緊SS啦﹐終於可以盡情作文啦。

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係呀﹐成個禮拜無update 啦。甘其實無update 既原因又好多既﹐因為一向都不按理出牌架麻﹐之前試過玩到2﹐3 點唔訓都作文。不過今次又真係為預備SS既﹐要教研經三步曲之一既觀察。多謝魚牧俾課容易D handle 既我。不過雖然上過強﹐又睇過唔同既書參考﹐但係都要用好多時間﹐對於我呢D新仔﹐預備一強﹐真係閒閒地都要十幾二十個鐘。睇資料﹐消化整理﹐預備講義﹐powerpoint, dry run 一次﹐真係少D時間都唔得。今次其實都要尋晚先finalize 好D野﹐重要魚牧幫我執個powerpoint (其實我唔係好識用既﹐希望今次同魚牧偷到師﹐不過佢D powerpoint 係全世界最靚架啦﹐我學到一成到好啦。真心說話﹐唔係擦鞋架)。感恩今朝教都OK, 唔太緊張﹐但係開頭去得快左D。希望大家都學到D新野﹐無浪費到大家既時間啦。

甘實習老師有咩立志呢? 希望下次早D預備好啦。同埋下次要記得帶喉糖! 係度要多謝BBT﹐無左你既糖﹐我諗我之後唱唔到詩架啦。同埋要多謝課後大家既鼓勵﹐一齊努力啦!

十月既忙, one down. SS 就要十一月先再教﹐不過要連教兩強﹐真係唔早D預備都唔得啦。

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我好想知﹐又俾魚牧擺上(講)台﹐係咪應該有得收返錢架呢?

白色風車

跟一路向北很像﹐因為都是這姓蔡的作曲。比較喜歡這首﹐因為如果可以﹐我也希望夢會沒有盡頭。

白色風車

歌手：周杰倫作曲：周杰倫
填詞：周杰倫編曲：蔡科俊 Again

＊白色的風車　安靜的轉著　
真實的感覺　夢境般遙遠　
甜甜的海水　複雜的眼淚　
看妳傻笑著　握住我的手＊

夢希望沒有盡頭　我們走到這就好
因為我不想太快走完這幸福

＃很可惜沒有祝福　當愛妳並不孤獨　
不會再讓妳哭　

我揹妳走到最後　能不能不要回頭　
妳緊緊的抱住我　說妳不需要承諾　
妳說我若一個人會比較自由　
我不懂妳說什麼　反正不會鬆手　

我揹妳走到最後　能不能別想太多　
會不會手牽著手　晚一點才到盡頭　
妳說不該再相見只為了瞬間　
謝謝妳讓我聽見　因為我在等待永遠＃

REPEAT＊＃

謝謝妳讓我聽見　因為我在等待永遠

男人唔易做

雖然人人都話做女人難﹐但係我諗男人都唔易做。

近日看了不少講兩性相處既書﹐發現男女真的有別。當然﹐人人都知男女有別﹐但當我們與異性相處既時候﹐難免會忘記大家既思想模式﹐做事方法﹐溝通方式可以好唔同。女既﹐有時會將丈夫/男友當作自己既閨中密友看待﹐但係甘樣就會攪到大家都辛苦。講真﹐無乜男人會真係有興趣同你講shopping 有咩收獲(我諗講幾句得囉﹐但係我知姊妹們講手袋都可以講成個鐘架麻)﹐講個頭應該點剪點highlight (其實如果佢真係鐘意你﹐你個頭點都無所謂架啦﹐當然我假設眾姊妹都係自愛自重既﹐其實從來我地扮靚都唔應該單為取悅其他人), etc. etc.

Love & Respect 裡面話"no man can meet all the emotional needs of a woman" 其實真係好岩。我諗女既要 be realistic, 一方面唔好對另一半有不合理既expectation 同要求﹐另一方面都要有一班姊妹support, 有D野都係要同女仔傾返先得既。你覺得我好明白你﹐原因好簡單﹐因為大家同係女呀。唔好再話我係男既就嫁我先得架﹐我好驚俾人打架。

Fruits & Passion

係卡加利既時候﹐YY介紹左Fruits & Passion 呢個品牌俾我﹐試過﹐覺得唔錯﹐於是買左兩種hand cream 返黎﹐有Avocado Hand Butter 同clearance 既Repairing-Action Hand Butter with Lettuce Extract. 俾一眾姊妹試過﹐好評如潮。發現網上有得order, 多過$75 就free shipping, 有興趣既話﹐可以入去睇下。

Wendy's Blog

Tuesday, October 31, 2006

十月的最後一天...

Monday, October 30, 2006

較鐘後的一天

Sunday, October 29, 2006

book study

Twelve Extraordinary Women by John MacArthur

較鐘的一天

Saturday, October 28, 2006

無所事事

Anybody home?

Thursday, October 26, 2006

緣份遊戲III

Wednesday, October 25, 2006

過敏

緣份遊戲II

Tuesday, October 24, 2006

黑色毛衣

緣份遊戲

Monday, October 23, 2006